Wednesday, September 24, 2008

The website is up!!

JoeandJill.ca is back up!! Lots of new features.

Click on the blue pen at the top, and it will take you to the blogs. All my past blogs are there, and from now on I'll be blogging there. When reading the blog, you'll have to click on "read more" to see the entire blog for the day.

The film strip is pictures of course. I've loaded up lots of new ones, including Vancouver, July, and August, which has Martin's birthday and our trip to Redang.

The green book is Joe's "book". It will probably come along as fast as his blogs.

The blue person is "about us", and the yellow phone is "contact us". You can email me, Joe, Oliver or Martin.

Then, if you wish to become a "user" contact Joe for permission and you'll be able to see our calendar. And on the home page, if you look to the right, you'll see our "twitter" status, which is similar to facebook status.

I hope you enjoy! And thank you Blogger for the good times.

Monday, September 22, 2008

Monday Craft Update

Knitting
Did about 5 rows on the back of Marysa's sweater.

Finished a baby ball.


Cross-stitch
Ironed Lightning McQueen. Decided not to wash after the debacle with the Snow Family. Started stitching a Christmas Winnie the Pooh for Basil (she likes cutesy things). Magazine said it should only be 13 hours. And yes, if you think I'm procrastinating on starting Martin's stocking, you would be 100% right.

Crochet
Nothing.

Photography / videography
Going to work on the website now. The goal is to release this week. Joe doesn't have it working properly in Internet Explorer. So just get Firefox, so he can release the darn thing.

Declutter
Nothing.

Friday, September 19, 2008

Update on Joe and Jill

I always do updates on Oliver and Martin. I thought you would like an update on us.

Joe
Joe is busy looking after the computers, they seem to be failing in succession. First the serve got upgrade (we now have a bazillion terabytes of space). Then the TVPC went on the fritz. Then the Sony laptop got recalled, fixed, screwed up the wireless, and then fixed again.

He's been taking his power boat license course this week. So now he knows how to navigate. I say that will be a handy skill until he buys the GPS.

Jill
I've been busy stitching, so now I'm on a low. I always need a breather before starting a new project, as I find it daunting. But I can't put off Martin's stocking any longer if I want it for his second Christmas. Stitch 'n Bitch is going really well.

I'm still exercising (aren't you proud of me?). I bought some resistance bands and small hand weights. I actually think I'm seeing some progress.

I'm also going to start going to Chick Flick with the Canadian Club.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Financial Markets - Goodwill

From www.nytimes.com:
With little notice, regulators at four agencies that oversee the nation’s banks and savings associations on Monday and Tuesday proposed a significant change in accounting rules to bolster banks and encourage widespread industry consolidation by making them more attractive to prospective purchasers. The regulators and the Bush administration have decided to resort to further loosening of the accounting rules to try to get the industry through problems that some experts have attributed in large part to years of deregulation.

The action by the four banking agencies provides more favorable accounting treatment of so-called good will, an intangible asset that reflects the difference between the market value and selling price of a bank. The move is similar to a step taken in the midst of the savings-and-loan crisis that helped many institutions in the short run.

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I'm not an accountant, but I do not think this is a good move. Goodwill is not a true asset, it is basically the amount of money you overpay for a purchase, in essence the amount you pay for the brand name. In insurance risk based capital ratios, goodwill must be deducted from the amount of capital you can use in the ratio.

Also, in today's markets what really is the selling price of the entity? How can you measure it? I think balance sheets will be overstated in the near term. And once they have put this in, it will be difficult to change it.

Plus it is not consistent with the IFRS coming in, which is all fair value principled.

But this is my humble opinion, we will see what happens.

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Financial Markets

Wow. The financial markets are certainly interesting these past couple of days. It's like watching 9/11 but being financial markets instead. The question really is where will it end? I don't think it's over yet. People will not be looking at financial companies and rating companies the same for the near to medium future.

From www.nytimes.com

Under the plan, the Fed will make a two-year loan to A.I.G. of up to $85 billion and, in return, will receive warrants that can be converted into common stock giving the government nearly 80 percent ownership of the insurer, if the existing shareholders approve. All of the company’s assets are being pledged to secure the loan. Existing stockholders have already seen the value of their stock drop more than 90 percent in the last year. Now they will suffer even more, although they will not be totally wiped out. The Fed was advised by Morgan Stanley, and A.I.G. by the Blackstone Group.

Fed staffers said that they expected A.I.G. would repay the loan before it comes due in two years, either through the sales of assets or through operations.

Monday, September 15, 2008

Oliver and Martin

Hi!!!!!

Oliver at tae kwon do. He did well at his first paid class. We were able to get him into the costume (with some cajoling, but he put it on). At first he didn't participate much, but he didn't run to us either. And then they brought out the obstacle course. He LOVED that. He was first in line and he kept cutting in line to do it more. They had to crawl, then run between pylons, jump over some small pads, and then do a punch. He was pretty good at it to.

Martin is another water baby. We had him in (and around) the pool for an hour each day of the weekend. He goes underwater and comes up smiling, and not sputtering at all. He has no issues getting his face wet. He also loves to play in the outdoor showers (but funny enough, he isn't crazy about the shower in the bath).


Go read my craft post. But I thought I'd do another post, as I know some people (who are in Paris right now!!) are needing a grandson fix.

Monday Craft Update

Knitting
Nothing.

Cross-stitch
Finished!!! I just went and checked, I started May 19th. I still need to wash and frame.

Crochet
Finished the octopus, which Oliver named, Oliver the Octopus.

Photography / videography
Put up the rest of the vacation pictures (realizing we didn't take any pictures of Julia & Frazz), so Montreal & Vancouver. Don't know where Joe hid rest of the pictures. Besides, website isn't up yet, so nothing for you to see yet.

Declutter
Did some organizing of baby toys, but didn't get rid of anything.

Friday, September 12, 2008

Amazing Race Asia

Finally, all the reality TV shows are coming back. Last night was the premier of Amazing Race: Asia. It's supposed to be the "toughest race yet". Well, they are in season 3, so it's not like it is hard to beat. The teams are interesting, the locations are beautiful, and watching people eat deep fried bugs is always a good time.

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

TV: The Tudors


Did I tell you about my latest obsession? Lana can attest to you that when I decide to like something, I really really like it. My latest is The Tudors. I've read several of the Philippa Gregory books, and I've downloaded season 1, of the Showtime show, "The Tudors". It's really good. It helps too that Henry VII, is a total hottie. I'm almost done season one, and have to wait until December until season 2 comes out on DVD (hint hint Paulina, buy it for Joe to give to me for Christmas!).

In season 1 it is the time period where he first meets Anne Boyeln, similar to the books. You have to concentrate quite a bit to watch though, but the costumes and scenery are excellent. It's a lot of characters to keep track of, but I think I'm doing okay. It's really just a big soap opera, and I've been following soaps since I was in utereo.

Monday, September 8, 2008

Monday Craft Update

Not a great week, as did nothing Monday (on plane back from Hong Kong and watched the Sex & the City movie instead), Wednesday (preparing for a speech on Thursday), Thursday (work dinner), and Friday (party at the complex).

Knitting
Nothing.

Cross-stitch
Continued with the outlining of Lightning McQueen. Did about 3 hours. It's my usual, "I'm done 90% and I'm running out of steam, and now it's just a big slog". Maybe I don't like outlining as much as I think I do, as I always bog down in this part. But I will carry on.

Crochet
Making a little octopus, with the yarn bought at Shall we Knit, on Knit in Public day. I've made the body nad 7 out of 8 legs.

Photography / videography
Nothing. BUT Joe is working on getting the website up. He still hasn't told me where he's put the pictures though.

Declutter
Got rid of some of the "baby's first year" books. Baby stuff is the easiest decluttering, so I'm doing that. Everything else just seems overwhelming.

Sunday, September 7, 2008

Thomas & Friends: Live on Stage!!

Yesterday, we went and saw Thomas & Friends Live! On Stage in "Thomas Saves the Day"

It is a live show, featuring Thomas, Percy and Diesel. There is much singing and dancing, and of course the trains. Frankly, they could have had the trains a little more and less singing and dancing. Joe barely stayed awake. But when Thomas came on stage, Oliver jumped up and yelled "Thomas! Thomas! Thomas" while running around in a circle in front of his seat. Oliver liked it and that's what really matters.

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Update on Oliver and Martin

First off, I apologize for no pictures. Joe's added new servers and I have no idea where the pictures are. But good news is the website should be back soon. Bad news, no new pictures until I know where they are!

Oliver
Oliver did another Tae Kwon Do lesson this morning. It went much much better, so we have signed him up for lessons. It looks quite fun, and will be good for him. We have moved him into a group swimming lesson, with 2 other boys here at the complex. That's going well, and will be easier on the pocketbook.

He's becoming more and more independent. He likes his "privacy" when he's using the washroom, and wanting to do more and more himself. He wants to walk to school (as opposed to the stroller) and carries his own backpack.

Martin
Martin is choosing to walk pretty much all the time. He rarely crawls, just to reach for something. He's showing a sense of humour, as he will after dinner, take his bib, and hide behind it. It you say "Where's Martin?", he'll pull it down with a big grin.

He's loves to ride the tricycle (since Oliver is always on his Lightening McQueen toy), and crawls onto it frequently, and then yells at us to push him around. He has a new tooth, so he has 4 on the top and 4 on the bottom.

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Quick trip to Hong Kong

I made a quick trip to Hong Kong, leaving Sunday afternoon and returning on Monday night.

When setting off, I went to give Oliver a hug, and he ran over and said "I love you" with no prompting. So sweet.

The flight was good. I read up on Islamic finance and listened to Garth Brooks. Probably not a combination that happens every day.

Hong Kong sure has a lot of neon. I remember arriving in HK after our China trip and being very impressed with it, and happy to see so much English. Now, HK seemed to be very Chinese. Guess, its all a matter of perspective.

The conference went well. My session was not well attended, but was very interactive, and good for the participants. I also sat on a panel and that went well also.

I already had my boarding pass for the flight home, so when I arrived at the airport, I went straight in. I saw that there was a flight boarding for Singapore, and I got on it! So I arrived home 2 hours earlier. I watched the Sex and the City Movie. It was really good. I laughed. I cried (luckily I had the row to myself). It also didn't seem to be censored.

Then Tuesday morning, when I saw Martin again, he gave me a great big hug and rested his head on my shoulder. Sigh.

Monday, September 1, 2008

Monday Craft Update

Knitting
Worked on Marysa's sweater. Did a couple of inches on the back and finished the horses. Have no clue about how to do the neckline.And here are all the ends to sew in. Yikes!

Cross-stitch
Continued with the outlining of Lightning McQueen.

Crochet
Nothing.

Photography / videography
Nothing.

Declutter
Sold the infant car seat and gave away the exersaucer. Also donated some baby clothes. However took in a lot with Martin's birthday, so the clutter is still coming out ahead. And I'm sitting in Joe's office right now, and the clutter is definitely winning in this room!

Saturday, August 30, 2008

Oliver Funny

I finished reading Oliver his bedtime story. I was then lying on top of him "squishing" him. He then returned the favour and as squishing me. He then sat up and started bouncing on me. I said "Don't bounce on my, I'm an old woman". He got off, looked me right in the face and said "You don't look old, you look brand new." So sweet. Then he said "Daddy looks old".

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Industry Wide Event

The government of Singapore is running simulation tests of the banking and insurance industry in the face of a pandemic. See article here.

We participated this afternoon. It's basically a test of your business continuity plan.

So then I started thinking, what's our family continuity plan? At what point would we leave if there are cases of human to human transmission of the bird flu. In all probability it will start in Asia. So would we go back to Canada? Would Canada let us in? What if the bird flu started in Canada, would our relatives come to Singapore.

In the simulation, Singapore had the least number of deaths (less than Canada in the end). So maybe we are better off here.

Stitch 'n Chat

Had another Stitch 'n Chat night last night. It was good, but turnout was slow. At first it was just 3 of us, but we ended up with 5-6. Mind you, I was the only one doing a craft, but the one lady I had taught cross-stitch to last time, has sprained her finger.

It was a nice time. And I'm now done the horses on the sweater. If only I could figure out the directions around the neck. Paulina, expect an email about that soon!

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Life is Great!

Great Eastern Life Insurance Company celebrated it's 100th birthday today, and Joe and I got to go to the birthday party, in my role as Deputy Managing Director for the company (the boss is away).

The party was quite good, and included the Prime Minister of Singapore. Impressive was the Chairman (who is actually a Chairwoman) all dressed in red. It was a huge gala affair at the Raffles Convention Centre that included free gifts (chocolate for the men, a gold orchid pin for the women) and a big year book from the Company.

It started off with acrobats/dancers, speeches, and finished off with a live performance of singers from the university who are putting on a play later this year, and another singer. All in all it was a very nice meal. Life is great, indeed.

Oh, and we were appropriately dressed in our "lounge wear". Oddest thing though, Joe's suit jacket got a cut in the sleeve, not even along a sleeve, so he had a last minute wardrobe change into a black suit. I was in my dress and was appropriate.

Monday, August 25, 2008

Final Olympic Update

My goal was to complete all the cross-stitches on the Lightening McQueen project. I'm proud to say that I did! Now all is left is the backstitch, which I've already completed a little bit on.



I'm awarding myself a Bronze!!!

Sunday, August 24, 2008

Home again, home again

jiggety jig.

The trip home was uneventful (the way I like it) and it's rained here all day long. Pretty dull day.

But it was a great vacation, so we have the memories.

Joe's working on the server so I'll try and get pictures up mid-week.

Saturday, August 23, 2008

Swimsuit day


Remember those days when as a kid you would spend the entire day in your swimsuit? Well, that was today.

Joe and I went on a snorkeling trip to the Marine Park, which was probably close to the best snorkeling I've ever done, if not the best. We swam in schools of fish, saw a moray eel, and I got stung by a jellyfish (it came up behind me). They do sting!! Basil watched the boys in case you were wondering.

They we met up with the boys in the swimming pool, swam, had some lunch, took Martin back for his nap. Joe, Oliver and I, rented a kayak and kayaked over to a secluded beach. We then paddled back, got Martin and had more fun in the pool and on the beach.

We then had dinner and while walking back to our cottage, Oliver wanted to wish on a star, but we couldn't see any. Then we heard the rain, and we started running. We beat the rain back, but barely. We made it up the onto the porch and then the rain hit.

Another great day, and we go home tomorrow to real life. Sigh.

Friday, August 22, 2008

Fun Day!

Well, that was a fun and tiring day. We went swimming, on a glass bottom boat ride, Oliver, Joe and I went kayaking, swimming so more, playing on the beach, just general fun in the sun.

The beach is beautiful. The weather is beautiful. And traveling with your maid is beautiful.

Having a great time and wish you were here!!

Thursday, August 21, 2008

Redang

We arrived this afternoon after being delayed for about an hour. We fly from Seletar airport which is the old army airport, which was the smallest airport I've been to, until I landed 90 minutes later in Redang.

Redang is an island in Malaysia. And that's the end of my knowledge.

We finished check in around 5 and headed straight for the beach. Its beautiful soft talc like sand, very shallow as the tide was out and what I thought was perfect light (not so perfect when we reviewed the pictures, lots of shadows). So I made Joe go get the camera and take these pictures. Here are some edited ones. I should really start doing that, it didn't take him long.

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Current Events: Knitting group kicked out a library!!

See the news article here.

That's in Long Sault, right in my mother's old stomping ground.

On the one hand, I understand where the library is coming from and I can understand the emphasis on literacy (being a library and all). But to kick out such young kids seems a bit cruel. At least the library manager came up with a reasonable solution - talk about books while knitting. Maybe talk about knitting books.

For more discussion, see the Yarn Harlot.

Monday, August 18, 2008

Olympic Craft Update


I like these weekly pictures, I actually get more done than I think I've done. I probably could meet my deadline, but I won't be able to work on it at all this weekend, so I'll fall short. Unless I stitch a lot tonight!!

Saturday, August 16, 2008

Martin's birthday party

What a great day. It all started last night when we gave Martin his birthday present. A ride-on Lightening McQueen!!

The biggest challenge has been keeping Oliver off of it, so that Martin gets proper turns. Martin just loves it though.

They today, we called Grandma and Grandpa on the webcam, after having a pancake breakfast. The quality wasn't great but we got to see each other. After Martin's morning nap, we went and got the boys hair cuts.

Oliver was quite stressed during the whole process, but he didn't cry. Martin was very relaxed and curious, and didn't flinch when they used the clippers on him. Both boys sat on my lap. We then ate lunch out.

Martin then had his afternoon nap, during which we got things ready for the party. We borrowed a gazebo from a neighbour, which worked out quite well. Basil made lots of food (but her and Joe forgot to put out half of it!!). We had a good turnout, with lots of people coming.

I dressed up Martin and Oliver for the party. Here are my handsome boys.

And here we are getting ready to blow out the candle on his cake.
The kids had a great time running around, and now they are asleep in their beds. A very fun and exhausting day!

Friday, August 15, 2008

Happy Birthday Martin!!!

How quickly time flies, I can't believe my baby boy is ONE year old. He's really quiet sweet, quite a happy boy. He's very independent, and wants to do things himself, from feeding himself, to trying to comb his own hair after a bath. He is quite vocal, and says "mama" and "dada" but usually only when he wants something. He has a high pitched scream if you don't feed him fast enough, but giggles when you make a funny face at him. He still loves to nurse and will cuddle into position on my, and wrap one arm around me, and give me little pats on the back. Oliver is the most interesting person in the house, and he loves watching him.


Here he is, one year ago, at 5:40am after a very quick and easy labour. Though I still would have liked drugs, now I have bragging rights. ;-)

Here is a beautiful picture of him, with his big beautiful brown eyes.
Showing off his teeth. He got 6 in one month! And was a real trooper and didn't complain.
Here are some recent pictures. He's big enough to ride the little trike.

Martin loves to plunk himself down in empty chairs. I was thinking I'd have to get rid of the bumbo, but he still uses it, so it will stay. He loves to play with toys, especially cars, and usually has one in each hand.
Since he's now walking, he has to wear shoes when we go out. This is the first time wearing them. He chooses to walk about 60% of the time now, and is really quite stable. He'll be running soon.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARTIN!!

WE LOVE YOU xoxoxoxo Mommy, Daddy & Oliver

Thursday, August 14, 2008

East versus West

I read two very interesting columns this week. One from the Straits Times and one in the New York Times about their different paths to success.

In a brief summary, the West tends to favour individualism and the East collectivism. So the West will value personal freedoms more highly, whereas the East will value security of the group more.

The other point made is that the West tends to see democracy as the only government system that will bring success, whereas places such as Singapore and China are disproving that. Singapore is a democracy technically, but was run by the same leader for 30 odd years, and opposition to the government is not encouraged.

I would say that the articles, though stereotyping the cultures, are not that far off the mark.

Here's the NY Times article:
August 12, 2008
Op-Ed Columnist

Harmony and the Dream

Chengdu, China

The world can be divided in many ways — rich and poor, democratic and authoritarian — but one of the most striking is the divide between the societies with an individualist mentality and the ones with a collectivist mentality.

This is a divide that goes deeper than economics into the way people perceive the world. If you show an American an image of a fish tank, the American will usually describe the biggest fish in the tank and what it is doing. If you ask a Chinese person to describe a fish tank, the Chinese will usually describe the context in which the fish swim.

These sorts of experiments have been done over and over again, and the results reveal the same underlying pattern. Americans usually see individuals; Chinese and other Asians see contexts.

When the psychologist Richard Nisbett showed Americans individual pictures of a chicken, a cow and hay and asked the subjects to pick out the two that go together, the Americans would usually pick out the chicken and the cow. They’re both animals. Most Asian people, on the other hand, would pick out the cow and the hay, since cows depend on hay. Americans are more likely to see categories. Asians are more likely to see relationships.

You can create a global continuum with the most individualistic societies — like the United States or Britain — on one end, and the most collectivist societies — like China or Japan — on the other.

The individualistic countries tend to put rights and privacy first. People in these societies tend to overvalue their own skills and overestimate their own importance to any group effort. People in collective societies tend to value harmony and duty. They tend to underestimate their own skills and are more self-effacing when describing their contributions to group efforts.

Researchers argue about why certain cultures have become more individualistic than others. Some say that Western cultures draw their values from ancient Greece, with its emphasis on individual heroism, while other cultures draw on more on tribal philosophies. Recently, some scientists have theorized that it all goes back to microbes. Collectivist societies tend to pop up in parts of the world, especially around the equator, with plenty of disease-causing microbes. In such an environment, you’d want to shun outsiders, who might bring strange diseases, and enforce a certain conformity over eating rituals and social behavior.

Either way, individualistic societies have tended to do better economically. We in the West have a narrative that involves the development of individual reason and conscience during the Renaissance and the Enlightenment, and then the subsequent flourishing of capitalism. According to this narrative, societies get more individualistic as they develop.

But what happens if collectivist societies snap out of their economic stagnation? What happens if collectivist societies, especially those in Asia, rise economically and come to rival the West? A new sort of global conversation develops.

The opening ceremony in Beijing was a statement in that conversation. It was part of China’s assertion that development doesn’t come only through Western, liberal means, but also through Eastern and collective ones.

The ceremony drew from China’s long history, but surely the most striking features were the images of thousands of Chinese moving as one — drumming as one, dancing as one, sprinting on precise formations without ever stumbling or colliding. We’ve seen displays of mass conformity before, but this was collectivism of the present — a high-tech vision of the harmonious society performed in the context of China’s miraculous growth.

If Asia’s success reopens the debate between individualism and collectivism (which seemed closed after the cold war), then it’s unlikely that the forces of individualism will sweep the field or even gain an edge.

For one thing, there are relatively few individualistic societies on earth. For another, the essence of a lot of the latest scientific research is that the Western idea of individual choice is an illusion and the Chinese are right to put first emphasis on social contexts.

Scientists have delighted to show that so-called rational choice is shaped by a whole range of subconscious influences, like emotional contagions and priming effects (people who think of a professor before taking a test do better than people who think of a criminal). Meanwhile, human brains turn out to be extremely permeable (they naturally mimic the neural firings of people around them). Relationships are the key to happiness. People who live in the densest social networks tend to flourish, while people who live with few social bonds are much more prone to depression and suicide.

The rise of China isn’t only an economic event. It’s a cultural one. The ideal of a harmonious collective may turn out to be as attractive as the ideal of the American Dream.

It’s certainly a useful ideology for aspiring autocrats.

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Stitch 'n Chat

I hosted my first Stitch 'n Chat tonight! I'm officially now my mother, or my Aunt, or someone like that.

Anyway, it was GREAT. It was all women from the complex, there were 6 of us in total (including me). Only one person brought some stitching, the rest came for the bitching I guess. But I taught two how to do counted cross-stitch, and while one was keen on it, I think the other will do it at the next night.

We've agreed to do it on a regular basis, once every two weeks. I'm so happy. It's nice to have a girls night, and its nice to have company doing stitching. Even if I'm the only one doing it, at least its socially acceptable in that setting!!

Monday, August 11, 2008

Olympic Craft Update

Above is my progress. But I still have a lot to do, as I have all the wording "I am Speed" to do above, plus a "95" in the corner. But it's coming along.

But exciting craft news!! I'm hosting a Stitch 'n Bitch on Wednesday night! I'm very excited. I'm going to teach a neighbour how to cross-stitch.

Saturday, August 9, 2008

Olympics

Wow! Those opening ceremonies were pretty good (from what I saw). I didn't see the entire thing, as we went out shopping, so I came in around 10:30, during the atheletes parade. But I did see the lighting of the torch, pretty amazing! And then they repeated the ceremonies, so I watched the drummers, but then fell asleep.

And Happy Birthday Singapore!!

Thursday, August 7, 2008

Update on Oliver and Martin

Oliver!!
His swimming has gone to the next level, and he's able to dive down to the bottom of the pool on his own power. He even brought back up his plastic truck that sunk down there! I'm teaching him how to do somersaults in the water.

Our neighbours moving out gave us their old bike. He loved it, and is a natural on it (unlike his mother who learned to ride a bike, at what 9?).
Martin!
He's turning into a real toddler, as he chooses to walk about 50% of the time. He's actually quite stable and good at it. He is always full of smiles, and has lots of friends to play with during the day, so that's nice for him. He's starting to "play" and will take a toy airplane, and fly it around.

He's cute even when making a mad face.

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

Olympic Craft Update

Here's my progress. Lightening is pretty much done, except a tire, but if you recall, there is still much more to go. Going out Saturday and then being sick on Monday slowed down progress. You know you are sick, when you can't even sit up to stitch!

Here's what the finished picture is, so you can see how much more is to go.

10 days short

I'm 10 days short of my goal of exclusively nursing Martin. Ever since he started going to sleep on his own (KNOCK ON WOOD) and sleeping through the night (KNOCK ON WOOD), my pumping production has fallen dramatically. And then yesterday I was sick and didn't pump at all, and since I was so dehydrated, I didn't even get full, so I figure, I might as well stop pumping now, rather than bring production back up just to stop in 2 weeks.

So Joe bought formula last night. I'll still nurse when I'm around, but I'm done with the pump (yeah in a way).

P.S. Happy belated anniversary to Mom and Dad.
P.P.S. Olympic craft update later tonight.

Friday, August 1, 2008

Exercise?

That's a post title I bet you never thought you'd see here. Since Martin is sleeping better now (KNOCK ON WOOD), I thought I'd get up in the morning and exercise. 2 days in a row now, I've done pilates.

I was mentioning it to my friend, so he asked me why I was exercising? To lose weight, build strength, what? I said I don't know, aren't we supposed to exercise? He said it helps to have a goal. So my goal is to touch my toes with my legs stretched in front of me in the sitting position. I could do it when I did pilates before. I've never been that flexible, so it will be good to work on it.

Wish me luck!!

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Olympic Craft Challenge

One of my favorite bloggers, the Yarn Harlot, does an Olympic challenge, where she will challenge herself to get through some knitting during the games. For the Winter Olympics, she knit a Dale of Norway sweater. For the Summer Olympics, she did a spinning challenge. Yes, she spins, on a spinning wheel. Like in Sleeping Beauty. It's amazing what you find on the internet when you scratch the surface.

Anyway, I decided to hold my own Olympic Craft Challenge. It has to be done by August 24, 2008, the closing of the games. My challenge to myself is..... to finish all the cross-stitches on Lightening McQueen (i.e. not including back stitching). It's a pretty big challenge, as I'm probably only about 50% done, and well, that 50% took me more than 3 weeks. But if you don't push yourself, you'll never get anything done.

So do you have anything you'd like to Challenge yourself with? It doesn't have to be a craft. Post it in my comments, and then we will all update each other on Monday, now renamed "Olympic (Craft) Update" day until the end of the games.

Good luck!!!!

Monday, July 28, 2008

Monday Craft Update

Pretty much same update as last week.

Knitting

Worked on Marysa's sweater. Got a lot done on the back, and a couple more inches in the front. Two horses are done now.

Cross-stitch
Did some work on Lightening McQueen, the front of the car is done now. Working on the side. Looks pretty good.

Crochet
Nothing.

Photography / videography
Nothing.

Sunday, July 27, 2008

Our weekend

Small update on the sleep training - last night, like I said, down in less than 10 minutes, woke around 10:00, fell asleep again before the 10 minute mark. Woke at around 11:30, cried for more than 10 minutes, Joe went it. Said he needed a diaper change, so I went to help and then Joe disappeared!! I nursed Martin quickly (as that nurse always seemed like a true feed). Put him down awake, he cried for less than 15 minutes. Slept until 7:00am.

Was able to do the sleep training for morning nap, with going in twice. The biggest thing that worked was getting Oliver out of the house. Tonight he was asleep before the 15 minute mark.

So besides sleep training this weekend, we did other things.

On Saturday we took Oliver to a trial taekwondo (which Firefox spell check puts in Wonderbra!) lesson. He did the first 15 minutes or so, then had a melt down and sat on my lap rest of the lesson. He says he doesn't like it. We'll see if he goes back soon. The place was really good and it looked fun. They said we could have another free trial lesson if we wanted.

Saturday afternoon we went swimming and in the evening watched Terminator: The Sarah Connor Chronicles last 2 episodes.

Sunday, Joe let me sleep in until almost 9:00 am!! After waking at 7:00 for a nurse. We went to the Changi Sailing Club after lunch, and Joe went sailing on a dingy and I took Oliver and Martin to the beach and pool. Our friends Mark and Mel were there as well. The boys and I spent almost 2 hours in the pool, so we are quite waterlogged.

We had Sheppard's Pie outside for dinner, and Joe is now reading Oliver stories. I think I'll stitch and see what's on TV.

Saturday, July 26, 2008

Sleep Training update

So last night, went okay, all things considered.

He cried for about an hour from 7:30 - 8:30. Then from 10:00 - 11:00. He then woke around 4:30, but settled himself back down in about 20 minutes, he never really got up too awake.

But to go in and see him screaming with tears streaming down his face, certainly breaks your heart. Joe gave up at around 10:30 and hid upstairs with earphones on. I continued trying to cross-stitch (going up every time my kitchen timer dinged it was 15 minutes) and then ripping out the cross-stitch mistake.

Nap time was semi-successful today. Morning nap, Basil ended up patting him to sleep - but not holding him, so it was kinda okay. This afternoon, I gave up after 45 minutes.

Today, we had to increase the time before going in by 5 minutes. So I nursed put him down, set the timer for 10 minutes, and haven't gone back in yet as he's quiet. Knock on wood.

Friday, July 25, 2008

Sleep Training

Bah humbug! I hate sleep training, even though I know it should be done. Poor Martin.

I'm using the "Ferber" method. The book explains it this way. Every night you fall asleep with your pillow. Now imagine if in the middle of the night, your pillow fell off the bed. You'd pick it up and go back to sleep. But say, someone took it. You probably wouldn't be able to go back to sleep.

Now Martin has always fallen asleep being held or nursed (though we were good at the newborn stage, but naturally fell out of it). So when he has tiny night wakings, it's like his pillow is gone.

Now, you could learn to fall asleep with a pillow. But it would take a couple of nights, and you'd probably be fussy about it too. Well, that's what I have to teach Martin, how to sleep without his pillow.

The book says to put them in the ideal sleep situation (i.e. dark room, bed, etc), then leave. After 5 minutes if crying, go in for 2-3 minutes, don't pick up and then leave (whether still crying or not). Then go in after 10 minutes, then at 15 minute intervals for rest of the night.

We've been at this for 40 minutes now. Poor Martin. Luckily Oliver is a solid sleeper, as is Martin's neighbour who is already asleep (I went next door to warn them we were doing this).

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Look what Joe made!

Here's what Joe has been busy on the past couple of months. Website.

Monday, July 21, 2008

Monday Craft Update

Knitting
Worked on Marysa's sweater. Got a lot done on the back, and a couple more inches in the front. Up to the horses ears now.

Cross-stitch
Did some work on Lightening McQueen, realized I made a mistake and spent an entire night ripping it out. Pain in the behind.

Crochet
Nothing.

Photography / videography
Nothing.

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Update on Oliver and Martin

Oliver
Oliver's imagination play has really exploded. As you can see above he's playing superhero, with a pillow case cape (my idea) and safety goggles (his idea). He was also playing with a stuffed animal this weekend "My Baby" and taking it out on his trike, which he called his Baby's stroller. He took his Baby to play at the playground on the slide, and did some elaborate stories with him.

He's recently started to get interested in dinosaurs, as a friend bought him so toys, and I found the book that Mom bought him a couple of years ago. When I said that Grandma bought the book he said "Thank you Grandma!! Why doesn't Grandpa doesn't buy me anything". To which I said "Grandpa doesn't like to shop. He likes to do things like go to the Air Show with you."

Martin
He's walking!!!! He can do a couple of unsteady steps between people. In fact, he did 3 steps on his own tonight, while I had my back turned getting out the video camera. He's growing and getting taller, I just had the crib lowered, as it looked like he was going to climb out soon. He's eating well and still not sleeping great. He's now 11 months old. He's quite vocal, with "baba", "mama", "dada". He often plays with the other children in the complex. His favorite thing to do is to go swimming, he just grins ear to ear when he's in the water.

Monday, July 14, 2008

Monday Craft Update

Monday is my favorite day to blog, as I don't have to think of a topic. I decided to take some pictures, as it will be a while before I complete anything, and you can see my progress, as most of you saw the projects in Canada.

Knitting
Worked on Marysa's sweater and am about 75% done the intarsia. I also did about 4 inches on the back, as I found needles in the same size. So Lana, do you like it? Does it look like horses? It's a size 6, so obviously, I have no hurry to finish it, but I want to get it done right away, else it will never get done.Oh, and the bottom is supposed to roll like that, it's a design element. The pink reminds me of this pink sweater Lana used to have with a compass on it. That was such a nice sweater.

Cross-stitch
Did some work on Lightening McQueen, finished up to the windshield.
Crochet
Nothing. Though I did look through some books. I think I'll make Marysa a butterfly instead of a duck.

Photography / videography
Nagged Joe to download the rest of the pictures, to no avail.

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

Book Review: A Fine Balance

I just finished reading "A Fine Balance" by Rohinton Mistry. I purchased it after Lianne had said it was her favorite book ever.

It was an enjoyable, if sad read. It follows the lives of4 people who end up living together for a year. It details their lives before they end up as roommates, and follows the year that they live together. The story takes place in India, during the 1970's in the turmoil after Independence. The four people are the woman who rents the apartment, two tailors who are uncle and nephew to each other, who come to work for her, and a college student, looking for a place to live. There they learn about each other, and break through the caste barriers that have existed for centuries in India.

I've only read one other book that takes place in India, "A Suitable Boy" by Vikram Seth. It's interesting reading novels that take place in other places, as you learn a lot about them. Mind you, most novels I read take place in imaginary worlds, so it does not take much to be different.

I liked "A Fine Balance", but not my favorite book ever. That's probably "The Count of Monte Cristo".

Monday, July 7, 2008

Monday Craft Update

Knitting
Worked on Marysa's sweater and am about half way done the intarsia. I also did about 2 inches on the back. Now I need to wait until the needles are free (needle size changes).

Cross-stitch
Did some work on Lightening McQueen, finished up to the hood.

Crochet
Nothing.

Photography / videography
New pictures are up in May and trip to Canada. Trip to Canada is only up to Montreal, as I need Joe to download the camera.

Decluttering
Added to the clutter.

Sunday, July 6, 2008

Sunday dinner

Sundays are a lazy day in Singapore. The nanny's have the day off, so we all have to fend for ourselves. I know what you are thinking "poor babies". In the ultimate show of laziness, we often will ask Basil to make us a casserole on Saturday so that we can heat it up on Sunday. It certainly helps out the mood in the house, as we don't have to fuss with that.

On Sundays, we all tend to gravitate to eating outside. I think it's the drawing out the last minutes of the weekend. It's nice. We all relax around the pool, conversation with the neighbours is easy. The children eat and then burn off energy for a good night's sleep. It's one of my favorite things about living here.

Thursday, July 3, 2008

Book Review: The Lovely Bones

On vacation, I read the book "The Lovely Bones" by Alice Sebold. I had heard of it before, so I decided to check it out.

The book is about a 14 year old girl who is brutally murdered. She narrates the story from heaven as she watches her family and friends deal with the tragedy and how they continue aging, though she doesn't.

It sounds quite depressing, but it isn't really. I enjoyed the book, but you need to be in the right mood to read it. It's a quick page turner, and a good break from Henry VIII and the Boleyns, who I had just read 2 books about.

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Visit in Winnipeg


Lianne just sent me the photos from our afternoon we spent in Winnipeg with her, so I thought I'd share also.

We had a great time. Weather was absolutely beautiful (one of our few nice weather days). As we had already visited, through a double date night previously, we were able to just relax and enjoy the kids.

Oliver and Bianca got along great. Martin and Sophia, well, not as well, but they had to share a play pen.

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Update on Oliver and Martin

Oliver

Oliver is doing well. He's not complaining of any pain from his stitches. He wanted to see them in the mirror the other day, so I held him up and he said "where is it?". I guess he was expecting something more dramatic.

He's suffering a little bit of jet lag, waking up pretty early (6am), but he's in good spirits and talking up a storm as usual.

Martin
Martin has cut another tooth on the bottom. So that's 3 on the bottom and 4 on top. He took to shrieking at dinner time when we were in Waterloo, but thankfully that seems to be done. He's starting to sleep a bit better, but he's up early also. Still no walking.

Monday, June 30, 2008

Q2 Craft update

Thought I would do a Q2 update, to see what I've been up to.


Knitting

  • Knit baby blanket for Martin (or someone else) - likely to complete
    • Finished.
  • New project - knit sweater for Marysa
    • About 10% done.

Cross-stitch

  • Teresa Welzer dragon, I doubt I'll work on this - ha ha ha you a crazy lady
    • Nothing
  • Sea Animals number sampler, I will pull this out again soon, and try to do a little each week. There isn't much to go, only about 25-30% to go. - 50/50 chance to complete
    • Finished, framed and hung up.
  • Lightening McQueen cross-stitch for Oliver - 50/50 chance to complete
    • About 20% done.
  • Cross-stitch ornament for Paulina, as she is coming for Christmas this year - likely to complete
    • Nothing
  • Christmas stocking for Martin, I think this will take 2 years - little chance to complete
    • Nothing


Crochet

  • Crochet Pooh Bear - ha ha ha you a crazy lady
    • Nothing
  • New project – knit teddy & ducklings
    • Did 3 bears and 1 duckling.


Photography / videography
I'm going to try and work on this one day a week.

  • Website, I will keep if fairly up to date - likely to complete
    • Have been fairly consistent. Not great though.
  • Videos, wonder how many I'll get done after the first one - 50/50 chance to complete
    • Nothing. Need to be better

Decluttering
Have done a little bit, but nowhere near what I need to do. Have given away the smallest baby clothes and some infant paraphernalia.

Monday Craft Update

This will be two weeks, as didn't update last week.

Knitting
Worked on Marysa's sweater in Montreal. Really am liking the intarsia, even though I only can do about 4 rows in an hour and then I'm burned out. Course, it could be that I was burned out due to being tired. Made pretty good progress, and it's starting to look like horses.

Cross-stitch

Did some work on Lightening McQueen. Have almost finished the hood, about 20% done.

Crochet
Nothing.

Photography / videography
Nothing.

Decluttering
Added to the clutter.

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Scarred in Seoul

On the way home, Oliver was playing around at our layover in Seoul. He slipped and cut his face, right above his eye, below his eyebrow with a big gash. Oliver immediately started screaming (I don't blame him, it looked like it hurt). We gathered our belongings and set out to find a first aid kit. We walked/run down to the next Singapore Airlines booth (they had just boarded the plane there) and they called for the medic. The cut, while not bleeding a lot, looked deep, and looked like it would require stitches.

Three medics showed up, cleaned up the wound and said we should take him to stitches. No chance of making the flight. Mr. Lee from Singapore Airlines, took over. He took us to the clinic (it was in the other terminal, we had to take the monorail there), the nurse there put on a fresh bandaid, and said we could go 24 hours without getting it stitched. This was important as there was a 7:45pm flight that Mr. Lee was trying to get us on to. It was the last flight for the day, and there was room. The flights the next morning were quite full, so it was important to get on this flight.

We rushed back to the other terminal, Mr. Lee got us tickets, and escorted us to the plane. He was indispensable as he had to negotiate us through immigration, security, etc. We couldn't have done it without him.

Oliver slept on the flight to Singapore and didn't complain of pain. We got to Singapore, and got home. We woke up Basil to watch Martin, and then set off to go to local 24 hour clinic to get Oliver's stitches (it's about 1am right then). We go down to the car, and the clicker isn't opening the car door. The battery is dead on the car. We set off to walk to the clinic (it's just at Thompson road). Along the way, a taxi spots us, so we hop in. The 24 clinic turned us away, as they won't do stitches on children, as you may have to sedate them.

So back into the taxi we go, and off to Raffles Hospital. They were able to give Oliver 3 stitches. He screamed like a banshee, but we were able to do it without sedating him. We swaddled him up, and a nurse held his head. We've promised him a new toy, to which he immediate said "Car. A Honda Edix, like Daddy's".

Back home by taxi, and a bowl of cereal for both Oliver and I (3 am-ish). Then Martin woke up, hasn't been back to sleep and neither has Oliver (though he was quiet in his room). I've given up, and me and the boys are now downstairs (6am Singapore time). Joe is sleeping (or trying to), as he has his first sailing class today.

But we are back home. With Republic of Korea stamps in our passports. Oliver is in good spirits and playing and demanding I turn on Little Einsteins instead of be on the computer.

Friday, June 27, 2008

Thank you

Thanks to everyone who hosted us on our Cross-Canada adventure.

Thanks to the Winnipeg folks, Mom and Dad for putting us up and for babysitting. Lana and Brent, Lianne and Jeff for having us over.

Thanks to the Waterloo people, Paulina for driving me around to the yarn shops (though I think she thought it was fun too), Todd for letting Oliver try out the guitar, Kate for entertaining Oliver and Martin and Julia for helping Oliver go to the toilet!!

Thanks to the Montreal people, Joe's parents for hosting us, Teresa and Leo for having us over for dinner and lunch, and Rob and Beryl for coming home from the cottage early to meet up with us at a restaurant.

And to Julia and Frazz in Montreal for allowing us to descend on them (we are like a hurricane when we come) and put up with us at the end of our trip and organizing a BBQ. Thanks to Melanie, Chris and Peyton for a great day at the aquarium.

I can't lie, I'm glad to be heading home, but we had a great time. Thanks for all your hospitality.

Thursday, June 26, 2008

Book/Movie Review - The Other Boleyn Girl

I just finished reading "The Other Boleyn Girl" and "The Boleyn Inheritance" by Philippa Gregory. And by chance, on the flight from Montreal to Vancouver, Martin slept and I watched the movie "The Other Boleyn Girl".

The books are excellent, quick, enjoyable reads. They are about Anne and Mary ("the other") Boleyn. Anne married King Henry VIII and Mary was his mistress. It ends better for Mary than for Anne. "The Boleyn Inheritance" follows King Henry VIII's marriages to Anne of Cleves and Katherine Howard.

The movie was good, but having read the book, I found it easier to follow than if I had not. But I was watching on the plane, so it is sometimes hard to see and hear everything.

I recommend the books and the movie as a nice summer diversion. It reminds you that while it may be always good to be king, it isn't always good to be the queen.

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

ExpoRail



When we were in Montreal, we went to Exporail. It was excellent. When we arrived we were immediately impressed. They have a large building with about 9-10 trains in it, with descriptions of the trains and their functions. They also have a clip from the upcoming Imax movie, "Rocky Mountain Express". The movie looks quite good.

We walked around the museum, then went for lunch. After lunch, we came back (we just went across the street), and rode on the streetcar that takes you around the property. We went to Shed 5, which is the original museum. The museum has been there for 50 years, but the new building is only about 5 years old. There was about a dozen trains in there too, mainly from the UK. We also rode the miniature railroad (in the rain).

The staff there were extremely friendly and knowledgeable, and if you are in the Montreal area, I highly recommend it.


In Vancouver now

We left Montreal today. We had a nice visit with the family, and the highlight was the Exporail, or the train museum (I'll do a separate blog post on it). Trip is going well, but looking forward to going home.

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Swiss Chalet


One of the best things about visiting Ontario is Swiss Chalet. There is one right near the airport in Toronto, so we usually go there for lunch when we land. And tonight we are going out for dinner there.

I always order the same thing. If dining in - Quarter Chicken white with fries, if take out Quarter chicken white with salad. The fries get soggy on delivery.

I'm getting hungry already.

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Happy Father's Day!!!

Happy Father's Day to all the papas out there! Hope you have a good one.

I let Joe sleep in today and we had raspberry pancakes. Oliver made Joe a nice picture with Kate's help. He's going later to Henry's (the camera store), I'm sure he'll pick himself up something there.

Knit in Public Day

Today, was Knit in Public Day. Paulina and I went down to Shall We Knit, in New Hamburg for the event. It is a beautiful shop, and I did feel a bit sheepish (get it , get it) showing up with my big pink Mary Maxim bag. We missed all the big events in the morning, but I did win a door prize of a free pattern, and I bought some pretty variegated yarn.

Here is Paulina and I sitting outside and knitting.

I also bought the t-shirt, so I can now say "Been there, done that, bought the t-shirt".

It was a lot of fun.

Friday, June 13, 2008

Yarn Shopping

We came to Ontario yesterday. The flight was easy, Martin slept the entire time and I watched TV on the plane. Then we had lunch at Swiss Chalet (quarterchickenwhitewithfries - yes it is one word). We drove down to Waterloo, to see Paulina, Todd and Kate. Julia is at camp unfortunately, but will be here tomorrow.

Paulina and I went yarn shopping today. She drove us (Martin and I) down to Mary Maxim in Paris and we spent a good hour there (at least, time flies when you are having fun). I bought a cross-stitch stocking pattern, it will be for Joe, if he likes it. I bought a pink sweater kit with horses on it, it might be for a niece in Winnipeg, it's a size 6 so I have some time, but it's with intarsia (which I haven't done before), so I'm going to start it here so Paulina can help me. And I bought a knit t-shirt book for me, and some bamboo yarn. Bamboo yarn is supposed to be cool and anti-bacterial (I don't know what they mean either).

We had lunch in Paris, and Martin was his usual charming self.

All in all a very successful trip.

Monday, June 9, 2008

Happy Birthday Paulina!!!

Today is Paulina's birthday, and it was her birthday last year, that spurred on all this blog activity. I always teased Joe that he married his sister, as we actually have a lot of interests in common with the crafting. Paulina taught me how to crochet, and re-taught me how to knit (I had learned years ago, but never did anything with it). We can talk for hours about crafts.

She's also into scrapbooking (as you can tell from her blog), but its the one craft I refuse to do.

I'm very lucky that my sister-in-law, is someone who I would choose to be friends with voluntarily.

Happy Birthday Paulina!!!

Can't wait to see you and chat. And Martin is very excited to meet you.

Monday Craft Update

Cross-stitch
Worked on Lightening McQueen kit. Finished his mouth and bumper/chin. Thought I was humming along until I realized that it's only 10% done. Oh well. The black Aida cloth isn't that much fun to stitch on, it would be much better if I could backlight it somehow.

Very excited about Thursday when I do my big craft road trip with Paulina. Watch out Mary Maxim, here I come!!